Single Mothers Online author, Dawn Zamanis, has been the voice of DIVAS (Divorced And Separated) for several years. She disappeared for a while when she thought her new relationship was the one, the "real" one. She's back, attitude and all:

"I fell for him hook. line and sinker, girls.... a guy with no money, no morals, and no change of underwear. Hell, he didn't even pay rent while living under my roof. My bad all the way.

He's gone now. Yep, still love him—love doesn't just go away—but I am wiser and have to make better decisions for my twins even though I have asked for him to come back (more than once, and I cannot even say I was under the influence; it was mere stupidity). He has left three times, for no good reason, the last time taking both my portable fan and my vacuum cleaner! What a man, what a man, what a mighty good man.  Yeah, he showed me.

If you see him ladies, or see any symptoms of him at all in your guy, run. Run like the wind ladies. There is nothing normal or redeeming about a man who runs down the avenue with a Marshalls shopping bag, stuffed with a broken fan and a neon-yellow vacuum cleaner over his shoulder. What mismatch of meds was I on when I told the world this was the man of my dreams? Apparently, not a good enough mix of drugs. Ha! I think I need to find a new physician!"

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